4 comments on “Why it Sucks Being an Emotionally Charged Woman

  1. I feel rather fortunate after reading this that my wife CH is a bit less complicated than some women. Yes, she lets things fester, overthinking them and blowing them up in her mind before laying them on me, but it doesn’t happen all too often.

    As to men being simple minded, I have to agree. Sure, there are some complicated guys out there, but the image that I have in my mind, for all the men I know (including myself), is Walt Disney’s Goofy… and the soundtrack in his mind is “da do da doop, da do da doop…

    • Wonderfully said Harry, thank you for your comment!

      When reading and rereading and rereading and editing and editing and editing this post I felt like it was a rambling mess. I’m glad it seems to have gotten my point across and that it’s at least somewhat understandable. 🙂

  2. This is why, in our case anyway, a FLR/M can’t work. My poor KH does a lot of “unnecessary thinking” when it comes to the simplest matter. The wonderful part is that she knows this. She knows that when I make a choice, I always have her best interests in mind. I love her for it, and can’t express how much I appreciate her trust. It is so hard to depend on someone for your needs without worry. Being caged, I understand this, as for the first bit, I was constantly thinking what she would do or allow me to do. I’m past that now, as I gave her that responsibility, just like it’s my responsibility to pay the bills and make sure we have food on the table. I am happier now than ever, since I devoted myself sexually to her, letting her control even my arousal. I find that I’m even more emotionally devoted than I thought I could ever be to this wonderful, beautiful, indecisive, “emotionally charged, over thinking, roller coaster” that is my wife, partner, KH, and best friend.
    Sorry for rambling.

    • I absolutely love your rambling! What a beautiful comment. Thank you! I think it’s really great that she is aware of it (I think most of us women are). I also think it’s great that you love her so deeply that you want to help ease her mind. And let her know you’re on this roller coaster for the whole ride! 🙂

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