9 comments on “Insomnia

  1. CM,

    I have this same issue when I am required to sleep with my cage on. I wake up two or three times each night/early morning with a highly uncomfortable (sometimes painful) caged cock. However, my wife typically only has me spend one night at a time in the cage when we are playing. The other nights she lets me take it off to sleep and then put it back on in the morning.

    Even though your nights can be uncomfortable, I was grateful to read that this happens to you as well. Given that you spend many, many nights in a row sleeping with your cage on I figured that you did not have this problem. Knowing that even you has this issue makes me believe I can take on more nights with the cage.

    Thanks for all of your great posts.


    • It’s definitely something that I can’t really avoid… otherwise, I would! šŸ™‚ I don’t really “get used to it” either, it’s just something I have to deal with.

      Thanks for your comment, and thanks for reading!

  2. Why does this time of year seem exactly the right time for this? I really hoping Iā€™m not far behind you.

  3. Why would any sane, rationale man allow another human being to do this to them? What happened in your childhood that turned you into such a weak beta male. Have you no sense of self worth that you allow yourself to be tortured in such a way. Such masochism is a disease. Seek treatment for it.

    • Both ML and I have talked about our mental approach to our kinks. It’s not necessarily a “sense of self worth” issue, and I don’t consider myself a “weak beta male.”

      When it comes down to it, My Lady and I are both consenting adults, we very much enjoy what we do, and (most importantly) we understand why we enjoy it.

      I’m not sure if it’s confusion, willful resistance, or jealousy that triggers a response like this, but I feel bad that this is where your thoughts go.

      (I was considering deleting this comment, but I decided to let it run as is… not everyone agrees with or understands this lifestyle, and I think it’s important to show that it might not be for everyone)

      • “we understand why we do it” Ok i’m listening. Explain it to me. And its not confusion, willful resistance, or jealousy at all.

      • I’m pretty sure we’ve written posts about this subject before…

        I’d post the links here, but I’d much rather have you look for it and inflate our hit counter. šŸ˜‰

        Thanks for reading!

  4. I can do that. Research has always been fun for me. What’s so important about inflating your hit counter? Do you win a prize for reaching a certain number of hits? Does your service provider give you an award for a specific number? Or is this another one of your S/M games with which I am unfamiliar?

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