6 comments on “Am I a Sadist?

  1. I’m sure that there are as many levels of Sadism as there are of any other sexual practice, so I’m going to say, yes, you are a Sadist. It’s not a bad thing, particularly if it’s matched by some level of Masochism in cagedmonkey.

    I’m convinced that what CH has had surface are previously unrecognized Sadistic tendencies… She tells me how her pussy spasms and moistens when I moan in pain (and in Masochistic pleasure) while she abuses my balls… I’d say that qualifies as sexual gratification.

  2. I did an online quiz last week that told me I was a sadist, which freaked me out (luckily lots of commenters helped me deal with it!) Reading this post I realise that, used judiciously, it can be pretty damn hot.

    • I recently took a quiz and sadist was very low in everything for me. Mainly because I do not like causing him pain… that’s what makes this so difficult. It is scary, for me, to think that I would be a sadist. At least in the true sense of the word.

      It’s not like I’m going to stop our not explore this more lol I’m just saying! 🙂

  3. I think we should not get caught up in labels. Does it really matter what it is called, long as we enjoy it? People are afraid of being called a name, when a name means only what we let it mean. I think William Shakespeare had something to say about stuff like that.

    • That is a great point… I don’t think in looking to label myself, rather be able to talk about things more easily and be able to say something like “male chastity” and everyone knows that means I keep my husband’s cock in a cage and control his erections, his orgasms and whether or not we have intercourse. 🙂

      You are right though… there is no point in labeling for any other reason.

  4. Not long ago, I had a very difficult time wrapping my head around the fact that I might enjoy pain. It troubled me for some time. Once I sorted out that my body simply responds to pain which enhances pleasure I was fine. I was worried my motives were darker, perhaps linked to my past or something along those lines.

    I think, as long as the motives are positive ones, everyone is safe and sane and so on, labels don’t matter. Do whatever makes you happy.

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